Ever since the beginning of man people have been meeting one another, making judgments, moving on or becoming friends. So many people have passed through my life. Some remain and some do not. For years gay men would pass one another. Gaydar went off or not. One had to be so careful. Some men were arrested for just simply wanting the connection to another like themselves. The times are different now. I never thought I would see the day of same sex marriages, not in my life time. But it happened and thank goodness it did.